Have my husband and I been together before?

Yes, you have had various associations, which is why you love each other so much, and which is why you are able to bicker so much! You see, it is so comfortable, it was comfortable for both of you to meet and to develop a lifetime together, for the relationship was not a very complicated one, and therefore you were able to explore other aspects of yourselves. What happens when two people come together in a relationship that is brand new, if they have never been together, or only been together one or two times in previous lifetimes, then the relationship becomes a great deal of work, for there is much to explore and much to learn, and the energetic compatibility can be difficult to attain. However, for the two of you there have been many times of energetic compatibility, sometimes non-compatibility, and in the long run it is very comfortable for both of you.